Couples Therapy Not Fix Summary

Couples therapy is powerful, but it isn’t a cure-all. It can’t fix a relationship if one or both partners are unwilling to participate fully, or if there is ongoing abuse, untreated addiction, or a lack of respect and safety.

Couples Therapy Not Fix Detail

There are situations where therapy may not be enough to repair a relationship. These include cases where one partner refuses to engage, where emotional or physical abuse is present, or where there are untreated mental health or substance issues that need to be addressed individually first. As a couples therapist, I prioritize emotional and physical safety in the therapy room. If those foundational elements are missing, therapy may not be appropriate until other supports are in place. My role is to help couples gain clarity, explore possibilities, and determine the healthiest path forward—even if that path leads to separation.